Another thing that helps keep me happy is to look at things that are cute and to laugh a LOT. I believe that laughter and humility is one of the best ways to keep a positive and energetic outlook on life. This is something that I've noticed is hard for a lot of people to do. I've noticed that a lot of people almost look for things to get mad at or to hold a grudge on. They play the victim of any situation and end up making themselves feel oppressed just to be able to feel mad. It's a way to pin their anger or sadness on someone else, and I'm here to say that it needs to stop. Not only is blame, resentment, and hate toxic for your spirit and overall well being, it causes a negative energy towards others and it's not okay. My biggest advice for those people is to let go. I know it's hard to do that sometimes. There are a lot of rude people out in the world and it's easy to become offended or upset because of what they say or do. But in order to keep your happiness, you need to let it go. The less you care, the happier you are. I'm not saying to completely disregard anything that makes you unhappy,(that would just be childish) but to find less things that upset you. Pick your battles, and stop playing the victim card. It is so unbelievably easy to ignore something that is bothering you, and I can promise you that. Stop getting offended. As I said, the world is filled with rude people, and they will speak their mind. But it's the way you react that keeps those people going. They're looking for a reaction, and if you act on what they say or do without logically thinking it through, you're giving them what they want. And I understand that it's human nature to be unsatisfied, as I said in my last blog post, but your happiness depends on your actions, not everybody else's. That's why I'm a big fan of humility. Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less. And if somebody actually does cross the line, I let them know; not with anger or yelling, but logically explaining to them where they crossed the line. If the situation doesn't resolve, I walk away from it. But in the mean time, I keep life happy and light. I joke around, and I find the light in situations. I avoid confrontation and I avoid being rude. i surround myself with people that lift my energy and spirits up, not people who weigh me down. I can promise you that just by picking your battles and letting more things go, by not letting your emotions get in the way of everything and thinking through every situation logically, you will be a happier person, and you will want others to be happy. Life is too short to be angry at everybody. Laugh a little. 
